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Why do people choose to pretend they're okay instead of speaking up?

26 answers
  • 2 weeks ago
    Speaking up to whom exactly? How can X be Pity for Z and X life is not even better 🪦🥷
  • 2 weeks ago
    its easier and better that way
  • 2 weeks ago
    It's not like people really r looking forward to hear about all my problems. I just deal with them myself and pray my way through life.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Coz I ude to pretend and to feel fine . Then I don't want others to get into my problems.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Coz I use to pretend and to feel fine . Then I don't want others to get into my problems
  • 2 weeks ago
    Because people don't listen, believe them or understand.
  • 2 weeks ago
    everyone has his or her own battle to fight ... they cud nt solve all problems n cant focus all of them at once . u hv to deal with ur share.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Maybe they know, others not listen or can't help them.
  • 2 weeks ago
    might be its okay
  • 2 weeks ago
    Sometimes it's hard to say how you truly feel. Sometimes you don't want to overly lean on someone.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Cuz they don't want to show their weakness if they talked or complained n sometime they don't want people to use that against them
  • 2 weeks ago
    Cuz some think you are weak mf
  • 2 weeks ago
    Hi
  • 2 weeks ago
    Therapist here. It's easy to stay silent. If you speak up you have to deal with being vulnerable, feeling ashamed.
  • 2 weeks ago
    You also have to commit to working hard to solve your own problems. Being happy takes responsibility. It's much easier to pretend to be fine.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Because nobody in this world really cares
  • 2 weeks ago
    In my case i just didn't want to worry other that's all
  • 2 weeks ago
    Don't know
  • 2 weeks ago
    Cause they don't want to worry others, nobody cares and it's awkward sometimes
  • 2 weeks ago
    Because no one really cares about you or how you feel. Besides most of the time they can't help you either, and they end up judging you too.
  • 2 weeks ago
    Most people understand that others really aren't interested in hearing about problems. And it's basically the truth.
  • 2 weeks ago
    No
  • 2 weeks ago
    pasenxia na
  • 2 weeks ago
    Hello
  • 2 weeks ago
    Maybe that's their way of keeping the peace. Also I've noticed that if you have a habit of not speaking up for urself, the reaction might be worse
  • 2 weeks ago
    When u do

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